S – One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.
Proverbs 29:23 ESV

O – Commentary:
The reverse effects of pride and humility warn against the one and encourage the other. Ironically pride, by which a person seeks to elevate himself, actually results in his being brought low (šāp̱al) whereas one who is of lowly (šāp̱al) spirit is elevated by others to a position of honor (cf. 3:34; 15:33; 16:18–19; 18:12). God hates pride (see comments on 6:17) because it influences a person to live independently of Him.
 
Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” (https://ref.ly/logosres/bkc?ref=Bible.Pr29.23&off=7&ctx=29%3a23.+~The+reverse+effects+of+pride+and+) in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 968–969.

A -“Our attitude determines our altitude.” (John Maxwell).  In the spiritual realm, this principle applies.  Our attitude of reverence and honor for God elevates us to a place where he can use us.  When our attitude elevates ourselves, He has a way of bringing us to our proper place.  

R – Heavenly Father, we honor you as our God, Savior and Counselor.  You alone are worthy of all praise.  Empower us to remain humble in our relationship with you.  We can walk in confidence and strength while maintaining the proper reverence you deserve.

S – When the righteous triumph, there is great glory, but when the wicked rise, people hide themselves. 
Proverbs 28:12 ESV

O – Commentary:
When a righteous leader rules a nation, the people are happy (cf. 11:10), for there is order (cf. 28:2) and justice. But when … wicked leaders are in charge, good people go into hiding (also stated in v. 28a) to get away from oppression (cf. vv. 15–16) which causes them to groan 
 
Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” (https://ref.ly/logosres/bkc?ref=Bible.Pr28.12&off=75&ctx=ked+are+contrasted.+~When+a+righteous+lea) in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 966.

A – I like that this takes away wealth, title and position.  It looks at the attitude of the heart and the desire for righteousness.  You can hide the heart for a season but like truth, it always becomes known.  We must examine our hearts on a regular basis to check its grounding and alignment with God.

R – Heavenly Father, we worship and surrender to you.  Examine our hearts and test our faith in you.  We want to lead ourselves, our families and others with hearts that are grounded in righteousness, truth and our relationship with you.

S – Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. 

Proverbs 27:17 ESV

O – When iron is rubbed against another piece of iron it shapes and sharpens it. Similarly people can help each other improve by their discussions, criticisms, suggestions, and ideas. On the influence of companions, whether good or bad, on one’s life

Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 964.

A – We need people in our lives that will challenge us in our flaws, inconsistencies and blind spots.  Those relationships call out the good and bad in us so we can address them and grow forward.  We need to ask God to provide them and then build them into solid relationships.

R – Heavenly Father, you are Jehovah Jireh, our provider.  Would provide us with key “iron sharpeners” in our lives.  We need people who will celebrate our wins and also challenge our flaws, inconsistencies and blind spots.  This is a vital tool in growing closer to you.

S – Whoever hates disguises himself with his lips and harbors deceit in his heart; ²⁵  when he speaks graciously, believe him not, for there are seven abominations in his heart; 

Proverbs 26:24–25 ESV

O – There are people who hate others and will deceive them by flattery which doesn’t reveal their hearts.

A – One of the notes mentioned that hate is personal.  There are people who judge, critique and speak negatively of others in a personal way.  They can say nice things on the outside but the attitude of their heart is an abomination because they don’t forgive and value the other.  We need to examine our own hearts with those who challenge us.  We need to hate the sin and love the person…even when it is difficult.

R – Heaven Father, you are Lord of all of us.  There are people who are difficult in our lives.  Empower us to love them and hate the sin in their lives.  We want to discern what you are doing in the natural and spiritual realm.

S – A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls. 

     Proverbs 25:28 ESV

O – Commentary:

Without walls a city was vulnerable to enemy attacks. And an undisciplined person, who lacks self-control (cf. 14:17, 29; 16:32; 29:11), is also vulnerable to trouble.

Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 961.

A – We have total control over our thoughts, words and actions.  If we are not diligent to conquer any of these three, it will lead to sin and results that will harm us.  Self discipline allows us to establish healthy boundaries in all three that give us freedom from the distractions and burden that sin brings us.

R – Heavenly Father, you are able to accomplish all that you purpose to do in us.  Help us establish good, healthy self control in any area that could harm us.  We want to be disciplined in our walk with you today.

S – If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small.

Proverbs 24:10 ESV

O – If you are overcome in daily challenges, your physical and spiritual ability to handle it is restricted and narrow.

A – The Bible tells us there will be trouble.  It doesn’t make us bad Christians or guilty of doing something wrong every time.  Sometimes, we face tough situations because of other’s bad choices, actions or the enemy is making life difficult.  We can’t control them; We only control ourselves (thoughts, words and actions).   We need to grow in our faith and trust in God that in tough moments we don’t wither but flourish.

R – Heavenly Father, you created and hold all things.  Grow us in our faith and trust in you.  In the face of challenges and trails, empower us to grow in our faith and trust in you.  We want to be strong and ready for anything adversity we face today.

S – Do not toil to acquire wealth; be discerning enough to desist. ⁵  When your eyes light on it, it is gone, for suddenly it sprouts wings, flying like an eagle toward heaven. 

Proverbs 23:4–5 ESV

O – Commentary:

These verses warn against overwork for the sake of gaining riches. This speaks not against being industrious but against consuming oneself for money. Wise restraint in this area (as well as in what one eats at a banquet, vv. 1–2) is needed, especially in the present day when materialism drives many people to excessive work loads in order to accumulate more money. The reason for this advice is that riches are temporary and unstable 

 Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 956.

A – God wants us to work hard and money is our gain for it.  It allows us to enjoy life’s blessings.  Yet, it shouldn’t take precedence or a higher place than God.  When we find the proper pursuit for both God and money, our lives are in alignment spiritually and materialistically.

R – Heavenly Father, you are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider.  Thank you for your blessings that you bestow upon us.  We are grateful for the abilities you give us to work diligently and to earn what we live on daily.  You provide and bless us in many ways.

S – The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life. 

      Proverbs 22:4 ESV

O – Commentary:

Humility and the fear of the Lord go together (cf. 15:33). A person cannot be fearing God (worshiping, trusting, obeying, and serving Him) and be filled with selfish pride at the same time. Wealth … honor, and life result from fearing God, and as in 21:21 (see comments there) they also come from righteous living. So the fear of the Lord and righteousness are closely related.

Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 952.

A – Great commentary – our life cannot be filled with selfish ego and pride while pursuing a holy God.  As we grow closer to him, our life needs to emulate the one we are in relationship with daily.  We will never eradicate it completely.  Instead, we see less of it and more of Him in our daily actions.  The results and blessings are amazing.

R – Heavenly Father, you are Holy and worthy of our worship.  Empower us to walk in humility and fear of you.  We do not want to be known for our ego or pride. Instead, we want to honor and trust in you.

S – The king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the Lord; he turns it wherever he will. 

Proverbs 21:1 ESV

O – The king is the most powerful person in the land than he reigns over.  Yet, God is the one who directs him to accomplish his will and purposes.

A – God will accomplish his purpose in our lives. (Job 42:2). Either we can align with his will and enjoy the blessings or we can continue to fight for our own will and be disappointed that we didn’t get our way.  If we trust God to do things for our good, it causes us to  surrender to him.  

R – Heavenly Father, we worship and surrender to you.  We give you our hearts to hold and direct.  We want our will to align with your will.  Help us to grow in faith and trust in you.  We know you have things that bless and grow us.

S – The righteous who walks in his integrity— blessed are his children after him! 

Proverbs 20:7 ESV

O – Commentary:

Usually a righteous man, a person who consistently behaves aright and is blameless (morally whole; cf. 2:7; 10:9), has children who are blessed. His children, seeing his example of integrity, are encouraged to be the same kind of people.

Sid S. Buzzell, “Proverbs,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 1 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 948.

A – Proverbs has such a practical application.  When we choose to pursue character, integrity and authenticity, it has a dramatic effect on our lives…and those who see us live it out.  They want to pursue it too.  What a great promise for us that our children will receive the benefits of our pursuits.

R – Heavenly Father, thank you for all of the blessings you give us each day.  Help us to have the same heart to pursue integrity, honesty and character in our own lives.  As you model it for us, we want to do that for our children and families as well.