S – The people refused to listen to Samuel. “No!” they said. “We must have a king over us. ²⁰ Then we’ll be like all the other nations: our king will judge us, go out before us, and fight our battles

1 Samuel 8:19–20 CSB

O – Commentary:

God had set Israel apart from the nations (Lev 20:26; Num 23:9). By insisting on a king and desiring to be like the nations, they were rejecting God’s plan (see 8:5–7; cp. Deut 17:14). • judge us and lead us into battle: Kings performed three basic functions: (1) waging offensive and defensive war, (2) administering law, and (3) ensuring economic well-being

 New Living Translation Study Bible 

A – Israel rejected God’s plan.  How often do we do that?  Two things jump out of this scripture.  First, they wanted to be like other nations.  Comparison is an unhealthy way to live.  Learning from someone or an group is healthy.  Losing your identity to be like them is not healthy.  Secondly, they are bringing judgment on themselves.  This is inviting problems into their lives instead of eliminating them.

R – Heavenly Father, you are the source of who we are.  We want to grow and learn.  Keep us from comparing ourselves to others.  We want to accomplish the purpose and plan you set for us. Help us to avoid judging others.  Let us show your love in all situations today.