S – I give you a new command: Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you are also to love one another. ³⁵ By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another

John 13:34–35 CSB

O – Commentary:

The *Old Testament had commanded love (Lev 19:18); what makes Jesus’ commandment new is the new standard and example: “as I have loved you”—in the context, to the point of laying down one’s life for others. Jewish ethics emphasized learning by imitation, including imitating God’s good character. Disciples were expected to learn by following the examples of their teachers. (In antiquity, love for one’s own group did not need to imply that one not love those outside it.)

  The IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament

A – Right before this, Jesus washed his disciples’ feet and allowed Judas to leave and betray him and he was getting ready to tell Peter he would deny him.  Broken down – he served others, followed God’s will and gave grace.  This love was based on God’s character, not his law.  We need to serve, forgive and value others while following God’s will for our own life.  This will come at a cost to us.  It is so distinguishing that people who don’t know God will notice.

R – Heavenly Father, thank you for Jesus giving the ultimate sacrifice for us.  Help us to demonstrate that love that shows your character and heart for others.  Even though it may cost us, help us to do it anyway.