S – And not only that, but we also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, ⁴ endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope. ⁵ This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us

 Romans 5:3–5 CSB

O – Commentary:

This is spiritual glorying in afflictions because of having come to know (from oida, “to know by intuition or perception”) that the end product of this chain reaction (that begins with distress) is hope. Suffering brings about perseverance (hypomonēn, “steadfastness,” the ability to remain under difficulties without giving in; cf. Rom. 15:5–6; James 1:3–4). Only a believer who has faced distress can develop steadfastness. That in turn develops character (dokimēn [“proof”] has here the idea of “proven character”), which in turn results in hope. As believers suffer, they develop steadfastness; that quality deepens their character; and a deepened, tested character results in hope (i.e., confidence) that God will see them through.

5:5. A believer’s hope, since it is centered in God and His promises, does not disappoint him. “Disappoint” means “put to shame because of disappointment” in unfulfilled promises

“Romans,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures

A – Distress brings the ability to remain, developing a proven character with confidence that God will fulfill his promises. Living in a relationship with God, we see this cycle routinely.  The growth that comes from this is exponential – each level builds on the foundational levels beneath it.  It is hard to embrace but necessary to mature in our relationship with God.

R – Heavenly Father, thank you for our relationship with you.  We know there are challenges and you are with us at all times.  Help us to mature in our perseverance and character so we can walk confidently in hope.  We love and trust you.