S – The wounds of a friend are trustworthy, but the kisses of an enemy are excessive. 

Proverbs 27:6 CSB

O – Commentary:

An enemy (lit., “one who hates”) may seem to be a friend by his many kisses, and a true friend (lit., “one who loves”) may seem to be an enemy by the wounds he inflicts (probably inner hurts that come from being rebuked or criticized; see v. 5). Yet, ironically, the rebukes may actually be more genuine expressions of friendship.

The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures

A – What constitutes a “genuine expression of friendship?”  When someone cares authentically with honesty, transparency and care.  A real friend loves you enough to bring all three qualities to the relationship.  

R—Heavenly Father, we honor and praise you today. Help us nurture authentic relationships that will accurately reflect our actions.  Please give us the courage to hear their words and continue to grow closer to you.