S – The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but people are tested by their praise.

Proverbs 27:21 CSB

O –  Commentary:
Heat both tests and refines silver (cf. 25:4) and gold, showing what the metals are really like. (This first line of 27:21 is identical with 17:3.) Praise tests a person in a similar way in that his reaction to it shows what he is really like. If he gloats over it, he shows himself to be arrogant; he “knows” he is good. But if he accepts the praise modestly, he shows his humility.

 The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures

A – In this area, there are two tests we must pass – the praise we receive and the ability to celebrate others.  Anything that moves us to pride is not healthy.  In my life, the best way to receive praise is to look that person in the eye and say, “Thank you.”  I know my challenges and things I am working on – it keeps me humble.

One tougher question is whether we genuinely celebrate others in their wins.  When you evaluate yourself, it will check to see if envy and insecurity are part of the equation.  I struggled with this when I was younger.  There is freedom when you can celebrate others without either of these.

R – Heavenly Father, you are worthy of all praise and honor.  Help us to walk in genuine humility – not false condescension.  We are grateful for the times we are praised, knowing you are the source of our gifts and talents.  Help us to authentically honor and value others.  It keeps us free from envy and insecurity.