S – Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, ³ so that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life in the land.^,

Ephesians 6:2–3 CSB

O – Commentary:

The promise for those who obey their parents is that they enjoy a prosperous and long life on the earth. This states a general principle that obedience fosters self-discipline, which in turn brings stability and longevity in one’s life. (Stated conversely, it is improbable that an undisciplined person will live a long life. An Israelite who persistently disobeyed his parents was not privileged to enjoy a long, stable life in the land of Israel. A clear example of this was Eli’s sons Hophni and Phinehas [1 Sam. 4:11].) Though that promise was given to Israel in the Old Testament, the principle still holds true today.

 Harold W. Hoehner, “Ephesians,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 2 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 642.

A – There is no age limit to this command.  We should value and revere our parents as long as they are alive.  This is challenging for those whose parents are not in the same faith or where there are relational challenges.  Verse four addresses that by challenging the fathers not to stir up anger in the child.  We need to find the things they did that we can honor and allow that to be the foundation.  Parenting is usually based in sacrificing for the betterment of the child – we should be grateful.

R – Heavenly Father, you are a good Father.  Thank you for caring and providing for us like children.  You know what we need and what is best for us.  Help us to grow in our gratitude and honor of you.